The Best Gifts For Our Children

December 23, 2001

by Tom Barrett

This Christmas, as is our tradition every year, we will give our daughter three gifts. This is because the Baby Jesus received three gifts on the day He was born, one from each of the three kings. My wife was born in Cuba, so we combine the Spanish tradition of Three Kings Day with our Christmas celebration. In Cuba toys were strictly rationed, so the children each received one "big" gift and two small ones. We do the same with Sarah, partly because of tradition, but mostly because we donít want our daughter to be a "material girl." We see so many children who receive so many expensive gifts that they donít appreciate any of them.

But today I donít want to talk about the kind of gifts that we wrap and put under a Christmas tree. I want to share with you the best gifts we can give to our children. These are gifts you wonít find under any tree. These gifts donít come from us. Rather they come from our Heavenly Father in answer to our prayers for our children.

  Every night since Sarah was born, we have put her to bed with prayer. We have prayed certain things over her long before she could understand any of them. We continue to pray these blessings over her today, even though, at four and a half, she still doesnít fully understand all of what we pray in her behalf. We pray these things because, even though we love her with all our hearts, the One to Whom we pray loves our daughter far more than we ever could.

We pray that she will come to know Jesus as her Lord and Savior at a young age, so that she will not have to go through the trials that children who donít know the Lord in a personal way will experience. We pray that we will be good examples to her, and that we will raise and discipline her in a way that is consistent with His teachings. We pray for health and protection for our little girl.

We also pray every night for someone who none of us know yet. We pray for Sarahís future husband. We ask the Lord to give him a loving family who will teach him the same things that we are teaching Sarah, a family who cares about eternal things and will point him to the Lord. We pray for his health and protection, too.

We pray that both Sarah and the boy who will one day become her husband will remain virgins until they marry each other. Some day when Sarah reads this, she may be embarrassed that I have written about such things in a publication read all over the world. But I like to think that she will be glad I have shared a concept her mother and I feel is vitally important. By the time she reads this, she will understand how important it is that two people be able to trust each other completely in marriage. She will understand such trust is greatly enhanced when each one knows that the other had the self-control to wait until their wedding night.

You see, my wife and I believe in the power of prayer. We believe that God cares about every aspect of our lives, and He has the power to answer our prayers. We believe that the reason many children donít receive the gifts I am talking about is simply because their parents donít ask the Lord for them. Some people reading this have so much money that they can afford to buy their children anything they ask for materially. But the poorest among us in terms of the worldís wealth can afford to give our children the best gifts.

Site Meter
  Tom Barrett has been an ordained minister for 28 years. He has written for local and national publications for most of his life, and has authored several non-fiction books. He has been interviewed on many TV and radio programs, and speaks at seminars nationwide. Tom is the editor and publisher of Conservative Truth, an email newsletter read by tens of thousands weekly which focuses on moral and political issues from a Biblical viewpoint.

Send the author an E mail at

To read more Conservative Truth, visit Tom Barrett's archives.

To comment on this article, please send us an e mail.

To send this article to a friend, click here.

Conservative Truth Home Page OpinioNet Home Page
For a full issue of Conservative Truth, available only to our subscribers,
please join our list! To subscribe click here.
Home Tom Barrett About Us Aldrich Alert Humor
Subscribe Contact Us Links Search Archives